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-Det jag inte har fått med mig tidigare, vid andra liknande coachingsamtal, är att också hitta en strategi för hur jag ska göra min förändring långsiktig och hållbar. Detta hjälpte Lucy mig att själv komma fram till under vår session genom att jag hittade kärnan i varför jag tidigare inte lyckats - mina mönster och hur jag bryter dem.
- Under min senaste session med Lucy fick jag flera stycken aha ögonblickar! En av de var att jag vågade inte riktigt ta plats på jobbet för jag vill inte ""sticka ut"" även om jag vet att jag har rätt färdigheter. Så jag bestämde mig - jag ska våga mer! Dessutom Lucy hjälpte mig inse att jag kan inte ändra på vad andra tänker om mig men det betyder inte att det ska hindra mig att vara den bäste versionen av mig själv.
-För varje coachning så känner jag mig stärkt i min övertygelse att jag måste byta jobb för att öka min kreativitet. Dels för att inte stagnera men även för att jag vill så mycket mer. Min värderingar kommer hjälpa mig dit. Är tacksam för att få hjälpen att inse och stärka min övertygelse.
“What kept you going when you felt not motivated over and over again?” — so she asked, my dearest mentee.
Let me share a story first…
It is never easy to get a job in Sweden without the language. We all know this!
I arrived in Sweden 20 years ago with high hopes to work in the IT sector. At least something in line with website design & development, software design & programming, database management, etc.
I was told you must learn to speak amd write in Swedish. And so I did! Let’s start from the very beginning. SFI it is!
I admit it was great fun. I enjoyed the company of many others in similar situation. But every time I was on my own, I felt a sense of guilt not having a job.
I cannot be this!
I have studied at a University on a scholarship 🤔
My pride was shattered! My confidence was low! My hopes were lost! My reality was - learn the language & was applying for any job.
But still, I cannot be this!
Registration at Arbetsförmedlingen was a glimpse of hope. However… after she typed in my information on her computer she told me, there is a cleaning job at the cinema.
I’ve just told her I have a Bachelor of Commerce, major in Information Science. Working experience as Business Data Analyst from the Treasury Department in Samoa.
A cleaning job??? I went home and cried. I cursed and cursed. I was angry bad😡
No no no… I cannot be this!
I cleaned at the cinema at night and studied Swedish during the day.
Since I was always alone cleaning, it was the perfect time & place to shed a few too many tears of disappointment & feeling sorry for myself🥲
Meeting my friends at school from Panama,Eritrea,Thailand,Poland, Finland, Phillippines, Colombia & Russia was my ”four happy hormones” - they gave me hope just enough to push through every day❤️. Survival mode💪
Still, I cannot be this!
“What kept you going when you felt not motivated over and over again?”
You see… when you stay down for too long, your WHY is not strong enough.
Be mad! Be angry! Be frustrated! Be irritated! Let your chaos explode & your tears flow! And repeat… When you are done…
Ask yourself…
What is worth fighting for?
It’s not about the fall, it’s how you get up and keep going!💪
If I cannot be this, what can I be?
I was this 20 years ago! And I was willing to fight for ME! I was curious about who can I be & learn more about me. 🌟
It has nothing to do with being egoistic rather a sense of survival… at least back then!
If you have read this far perhaps you recognise yourself. The truth is you are to go through it anyways. But you can ease it by doing this...
✅Tap into your WHY
✅ What is worth fighting for?
Still stuck?
Contact me!
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Idag samarbetar jag med newstart.se och inhämtar inspiration bland annat MyNeeds.se motivationsverktyg, samt mindexpand.se mentaltränings koncept.
Diplomerad Karriärcoach, NLP Practitioner, The Human Element, UGL & UL, Train-the-trainer
~Jag hjälper anställda 40+ till nästa steg i karriären genom mental, emotionell och intellektuell utveckling.~
Svenska, Engelska
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https://lucylarsson.one | lucylarsson101@gmail.com | 073-0876911